fence etiquette

Did you know that there is etiquette to be followed when building a fence? Who gets the “better looking” side of the fence, or what we call, the side with no character – flat side? Who’s in charge of the maintenance? Should I talk to my neighbors about installing a fence? Did you know that trees and hedges can also fall under the fence category?

Living in the Upper Peninsula of Michigan, chances are that your nearest neighbor may live a couple miles away, but, on the other hand, they could be a few feet away. Either way, we recommended following this guide to help avoid any neighborly feuds and miscommunications.

Tip #1: Ensure that your property lines are clearly known

 It would be a bummer if you had to tear down your fence and reinstall it a few inches or a couple of feet from its initial location because it crosses a property line! One way to avoid this all together is to study a plat book in your area.

If it is still unclear where your property starts and ends we recommend seeking assistance from your local land surveyor, which is the best option. You may be on the same page with your neighbor as to where the property line is located but that may not be the case if they move out and someone new moves in. Some cities may be able to help you locate property lines as a precursor to consulting a land surveyor, however, this is a rare occurrence.

Tip #2: Talk with your Neighbors

Though you aren’t required to tell your neighbor your plans, it’s considered a courteous gesture to help ensure you don’t sour your relationship between each other. You may be putting up a fence to safeguard your pets and family from would-be threats but your neighbor might think that you are trying block them out. For example, a 6 foot tall fence would create a totally different impression than a 4 foot fence. A 4 foot fence is often chest high on most adults allowing you and your neighbors to interact with one another. On the other hand, a 6 foot privacy fence can also benefit both neighbors by offering total privacy. If you or your neighbor frequently entertains guests, enjoy laying out in the backyard on hot summer days, or like to enjoy a nice cold beverage, a 6 foot fence may be the better option. This way you can both enjoy all of the previously mentioned activities without you or your neighbor feeling awkward when you’re in your backyards.

When planning out your fence, it’s a good idea to take into account what the rest of your neighborhood might look like, choosing a style that matches a common theme may reduce the amount of resistance from your community. Maybe your neighbor has been considering putting one up too, which might be great if you both decide on a certain look and split the cost. This doesn’t happen often but communicating your thoughts and ideas with your neighbors might increase your odds.

During your conversations, mention the maintenance that would need to take place. If it is your fence then you are responsible for cleaning both sides. Your neighbor might volunteer to clean the side facing their property. To sweeten the deal, you could also offer to your neighbor the option to paint the side of a wooden fence that faces their property. If it is your neighbor installing the fence, you must get their permission if you want to make changes to the fence, like painting it.

Also, if you are part of a Homeowner’s Association (HOA) you may be limited to styles, heights, and types, detailed communication is key to keep things running smoothly.

We do want to give you a bit of advice for those of you who have “one of those neighbors” – the type that just can’t be pleased and won’t agree with any of your plans. After every failed attempt to see eye to eye, it is your fence on your property and you are allowed to do what you please with it – provided that you abide by all of your local ordinances and HOA rules (where applicable).

Tip #3: Install your Fence with the Front Facing your Neighbors

 What is the front side of a fence? The front side of a fence is considered to be the flat side of the fence, some would say the “better side” and the back side contains the mid-rails and posts. Some fences might not even have a “front” or “back” side, meaning that they look the same on both sides. These types of fences are considered to be “good neighbor” designs and are common among vinyl fences. You can achieve the same look on both sides of a wood fence by adding pickets to both sides of the fence or choose a shadowbox design that has alternating pickets on each side.

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Now that we’ve broken down what the difference is between the front and back sides of a fence, you can start planning your installation. Traditional fence etiquette dictates the front side of the fence faces outward from your property. This also is a good idea to make your property look appealing from the street. If you have ever seen a fence built with the posts and rails facing outward, you would think it looks backwards or inside out. It’s easy to picture this with a traditional picket fence. Also, not only is it more appealing to have the flat side facing outwards, it’s also safer and more secure. If the post and rails faced outward a would-be thief would have an easy foothold to help jump the fence and onto your property.

Who knew just a few tips could help you ensure that you continue to be on good terms with your neighbors? We take pride in helping our community become educated when it comes to fencing. If you have any questions give us a call and we’ll be more than happy to help!


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